The accepted etiquette of crafting with visitors
We have recently had a spate of visitors,
family or friends,
for morning tea or afternoon tea or even a meal.
I am the courteous hostess,
baking up a storm,
setting up a lovely table,
ensuring that the kids are playing nicely.
So I make sure everyone is laden with food and coffee
then sit and chat...and crochet.
And wait for the inevitable (tongue in cheek?) apology from my husband
"Yeah, sorry, Tas will just sit there and crochet in front of you"
Hmmmm.
Am I being rude?
I mean, I openly admit that, with age and child bearing,
my multi-tasking skills are diminishing;
yet I can drink coffee, follow a conversation
and crochet a few rows of double crochet
even with some occasional eye contact.
I also find it hard to sit and not do anything with my hands.
And if I can kill 2 birds with 1 stone, so to speak,
then bring it on, I say.
It never occurs to me that anyone might be offended by this.
I make sure that hot drinks are kept topped up,
that any blood from the kids gets a "Dora" or "Cars" bandaid pronto,
and I never run off quickly to my sewing room to run up a dress while the kettle is boiling
(as much as I might want to, depending on the visitors)
Most people that come into our house know that I am forever sewing or crocheting or the like
and really I just think that they accept that it is what I do.
Even if it is just a bit rude.
So what do you think?
Given that most of you are sewers and/or crafty people,
I am expecting y'all to support my cause
and say that it is entirely respectable thing to do.
(But regardless of public opinion,
I don't think that I am going to stop)